~Memorials
                An Eternal Memory…..
                ….Until We Meet Again
        Those special memories of you
             will always bring a smile
           if only I could have you back
                 for just a little while
       Then we could sit and talk again
               just like we used to do
        you always meant so very much
              and always will do too
       The fact that you’re no longer here
             will always cause me pain
          but you’re forever in my heart
                   until we meet again
 
As we are saddened by the loss of a family member, the Barnes Family Memorial page was created to pay tribute to our beloved family members we’ve lost. To add a beloved family member you’d like to honor, click the “Add a Memorial” link below. Note: if you have scanned obituaries or old photos that you would like to contribute, please email them to us at barnesfamilyconnection@gmail.com
 
 

Yasheeka Tocardra "Mouda" Grant

Birth Date: 1983-05-10
Deceased Date: 2017-04-07
Obituary:
Yasheeka Tocardra Grant “Mouda”, 33 of Hartford, CT passed away suddenly on Friday, April 7, 2017; she was born on May 10, 1983 in Hartford, CT; to Cecil A. Grant and Adriene Lauray. Mouda was educated in the Hartford Public School System. At the time of her passing she was employed with Community Residences, Inc., of Newington, CT as a Resident Staff Member. Mouda loved her kids dearly and she took great pride in being their mother. She also loved her sisters and spent as much time as she could with them. Mouda was a very ambitious, spontaneous, independent person as well as loving, caring and giving to all. She loved to travel and wear Juicy Couture, a real fashionista.

Besides her parents Mouda leaves to cherish her memory her loving children Dior Powell and Paisley Miles, brothers; Cecil A. Grant Jr., Sharon Grant, sisters; Kokumo Lauray, Casisa Grant all of Hartford, CT; special cousin Simone Grant, special friends; Doretha Trice, Shaward Rice, Tarria Lewis, Tania Amendolia, maternal grandprarents Betty and James Harris, paternal grandmother Georgia Grant, a host of cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.

Yasheeka was predeceased by her paternal grandfather Philip Grant.

NOTE: Information was pulled from the obituary published on the Howard K. Hill Funeral Services website.
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Eilon Marie "Onnie" Harris

Birth Date: 1983-03-12
Graduation year: 2001
Deceased Date: 2023-11-11
Obituary:
Eilon Marie (Onnie) Harris 40 of East Hartford, CT, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday November 11, 2023 in Hartford, CT. She was born in Hartford, CT on March 12, 1983, and was a resident of Hartford, before becoming a lifelong resident of East Hartford, graduating from East Hartford High School in 2001. She loved the outdoors and spent all of her free time sitting by a body of water. It is there that she did her thinking and enjoyed the quiet and peaceful surroundings.

Eilon was a wonderful loving daughter and sister. Above all, Eilon’s adoration for her nieces Gabriella and Sabryna was unmatched. She would make it her mission to spend time with them outdoors, watch their favorite movies with them, draw pictures, color, and most importantly, listen to all the stories they had to tell her.

Eilon loved dancing so much that at any celebration she attended, it was guaranteed that you would find her out on the dance floor until someone said “time to go home.” She was an avid New England Patriots and Boston Red Sox fan.

Eilon is survived by her parents Wayne T. Harris, Sr. and Dorita E. DeCarish-Harris of East Hartford, her maternal Grandmother Evelyn H. DeCarish of Windsor, her sister Latrice Grumley (Brian) of Manchester, her brother Delon Johnson (Janelle) of North Carolina, her sister Endia M. Jefferson (Steven) of New Britain, her sister Erica N. Harris of Naugatuck, her brother Jevon Christopher Wayne Harris of East Hartford, her brother Wayne T. Harris, Jr. (Stephanie) of East Hartford and her sister-niece Meia S. Harris (Reece) of Gardner, MA, and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her maternal Grandfather Dudley DeCarish, Sr., her paternal Grandparents Samuel and Martha Harris, and a sister Lawanda T. Brown of Maryland. From ponds to roadways, her footprint will be everlasting.

A Celebration of Life for Eilon will take place privately at the convenience of the family.
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Marvin Rudolph "Buddy" Harris

Birth Date: 1965-01-15
Deceased Date: 2023-07-20
Obituary:
Marvin R. Harris aka Buddy (58), peacefully passed away after a brief battle with lung cancer on July 20, 2023. He was surrounded by family and loved ones. Buddy will be dearly missed and always remembered. He grew up in Hartford, Connecticut, a town he loved and never left. He had a heart of navy blue, white and silver... credited to “them Dallas Cowboys”.

Marvin R. Harris was predeceased by Quan D. Campbell (nephew) and YaSheeka T. Grant aka Mouda (niece). Marvin R. Harris is survived by James E. Harris Sr. aka Boots (father) and Betty J. Harris (mother). Sisters: Patricia Stowers (Trish) of Hartford, Shirley Campbell and Calvin (California), Adrienne Lauray (River) of Hartford, Valerie Lauray Lowry and Lynnette (Florida). Brothers: James E. Harris Jr. (Jimmy) and Crystal of East Hartford. and Daniele Harris (Yok) of East Hartford. Buddy had two special bonus brothers, his dearest of heart friends, Anthony Culver and Ricky Weaver aka Cutlass, Regal, and Seville. Norma, a dear friend Roberta, and a great deal of nephews and nieces that loved Uncle Buddy dearly. Not to forget his aunts, uncles, and cousins. Thanks Samantha (aka Sam).

In 1986, Marvin met Debrah Chandler at Vito's Pizza on Laurel St walking by. Uncle Yok introduced them, and they went on to have one daughter, Brittany Monique Harris, and three grandsons- Kerry, King, and Kassius Monts. Buddy had time to pursue his own unique style of cooking at home as well as jobs that he had: Vito's, Red Plate, Blackeye Sallys, and a nursing home in Bloomfield!

Buddy had a passion for sports (THEM COWBOYS) and being with the homies. He was a selfless individual who would feed random strangers on the streets and look out for others. Buddy was an amazing dad, brother, uncle, adorable grandfather and friend. His character demonstrated an honest and dependable man that smiled a whole lot. He would do anything asked of him.

While leaving his job to be a caregiver for our mom, Marvin was dealing with a cancerous battle all on his own. He said, “I'm gonna fight this and stay strong through it.” And he did just that, all the way to the end being of a commando spirit. Bud please put some clothes on .. Heaven has gained a true angel. You will truly be missed. We love you.
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Alvin Jordan

Birth Date: 1951-01-24
Deceased Date: 1996-01-25
Obituary:
Alvin Jordan, 45, of Maplewood Avenue, West Hartford, went home to be with his Heavenly Father Thursday (Jan. 25, 1996) at Mount Sinai Hospital. He was born in Hartford to the late John H. Barnes and Mary L. (Jordan) Barnes. He leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife, Linda C. (Shannon) Jordan; four daughters, Tanya L. Shannon of Hartford, Tasha, Nicole, and Samantha Jordan of West Hartford; four grandchildren, John Shannon, Kerwin Banks Jr., Alvin Shannon, and Kwanisha Thompson; his step-mother, Mrs. Willette Barnes of Hartford; four sisters, Evelyn DeCarish, Annette Jordan, both of Bloomfield, Elizabeth Parkman of Manchester, and Betty J. Harris of Hartford; his step- sister, Sheila Henderson of Windsor; three sisters-in-law, two brothers-in-law, a father-in-law; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Besides his parents, he was predeceased by four brothers, and a sister. Funeral service is Wednesday, 12 noon, at the Salvation Army Church, 2194 Main St., Hartford, with calling hour, 11 a.m. Burial in Rose Hill Cemetery, Rocky Hill. Clark, Bell & Bell Funeral Home, 219 Barbour St., Hartford, in charge of arrangements.

NOTE: Information was pulled from the obituary published in The Hartford Courant on January 30, 1996.
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Elizabeth Parkman (Jordan)

Birth Date: 1939-02-03
Deceased Date: 2022-06-17
Obituary:
Elizabeth Jordan Parkman, 83, of Hartford, CT gained her angel wings on June 17, 2022 at Sant Francis Hospital. Elizabeth was born on February 3, 1939 to the late Raymond Jackson and Mary L. Jordan Barnes. She was married to Timothy G. Parkman, Sr. She was predeceased by a younger daughter Joanna E. Jordan and a son Timothy J. Parkman, Jr. She leaves to cherish her memory, her 2 Sons Thomas G. and Troy A. Parkman; 11 Grands, Rasheeda Weaver, Timothy, Jr., Tashara, Timmell, Eddie, Shane, Tashoy, and Tiara Parkman, Tamoay Talbert, Ashley Rogers and Simone Byrd; 6 Great Grands, Jeremy Syms, Chase Burgos, Tamire and Amire Parkman, Taurus and Miatye Thomas; 1 Great-Great Grand, Ciaro Syms; a Step-Mother Willette (John Henry) Barnes; 3 Sisters, Evelyn DeCarish, Betty Harris, and Annette Jordan and a Step-Sister Sheila Henderson. She also leaves a devoted first cousin and best friend Odell Boykin.

Elizabeth graduated from Hartford Public High School in 1957. She began her working career as an Office Cleaner. She later went on to work for Travelers and Aetna. She retired in 2008 from CBIA.

She was devoted and dedicated to her family, friends, and anyone who was in her presence. Family meant everything to her. She loved planning events, traveling, and cooking. She had a love for elephants that she adored so much. She even adopted an elephant and she made sure her monthly payments were made! Her one dream that she wanted was to travel to Africa to learn where her roots were from. 

Elizabeth was predeceased by one sister Dorothy (Shortie) Williams and five brothers, Chester, Oscar, Samuel Lee, Melvin, and Alvin (Linda) Jordan. She also leaves a host of nieces nephews, cousins, and friends that will forever keep her loving memory alive.

NOTE: Information was pulled from the program that was handed out during her funeral services.
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Dorothy "Dot" Williams (Jordan)

Birth Date: 1931-03-20
Deceased Date: 1995-04-30
Obituary:
Dorothy "Dot" (Jordan) Williams, 64, of Hartford, wife of the late Clarence V. "Shorty" Williams, died Sunday April 30, 1995, in St. Francis Hospital. She was born in Hartford, Connecticut, the daughter of the late Harry J. Hawks and Mary L. Jordan and was a resident of Hartford for all of her life. She was a devoted Wife, Mother and Grandmother. She leaves to mourn two daughters, Joanne and Sharon Williams, both of Hartford; two granddaughters, Amndre'ya Williams and Alexis Countryman; her stepmother Willette Barnes of Hartford; five sisters, Evelyn DeCarish, Annette Jordan both of Bloomfield, Elizabeth Parkman of Manchester, and Betty J. Harris of Hartford; her step-sister Sheila Henderson of Windsor; two brothers, Willie Williams of Tolland and Alvin Jordan of West Hartford; four Aunts; five Uncles, among them, Leroy Cicero of Hartford; five sisters-in-law; two brothers-in-law; and four God-children. A host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends, besides her husband and parents. She was predeceased by four brothers, Chester, Oscar, Sammy Lee and Melvin Jordan.

Funeral service is Saturday May 6, 12 noon, at Clark, Bell and Bell Funeral Home, 319 Barbour Street, Hartford. Burial in Soldier Field Cemetery, Windsor. Clark, Bell & Bell Funeral Home, 319 Barbour St., Hartford, in charge of arrangements.


NOTE: Information was pulled from the program that was handed out during her funeral services.
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Melvin Jordan

Birth Date: 1947-04-15
Deceased Date: 1989-03-20
Obituary:
Melvin Jordan, of Allen Drive Hartford, departed this life, Monday March 20, 1989 in Hartford Hospital, he was born April 15, 1947, to the proud parents of May Lize and John H. Barnes in Hartford Connecticut.

Melvin attended the Hartford Public Schools at an early age until he was paralyzed by an accident.

He is survived by his step-mother Willette Barnes of Hartford, two sons Micheal Simmons and Melvin both of Hartford. Two brothers Sammy Lee and Alvin Jordan of Hartford Five sisters Evelyn DeCarish of Bloomfield, Elizabeth Parkman, Dorothy Williams, Betty Harris and Annette Jordan all of Hartford, a step-sister Shelia Henderson of Hartford, a granddaughter Shamia Michell Simmons of Hartford, Two Brother-In-Law, a Sister-In-Law, Other relatives and many friends, Two devoted friends Gail Anderson of Wooster MA James Abron of Hartford

Funeral service is at Phillip C.M.E. Church, 700 Blue Hills Avenue, Hartford. Burial in Northwood Cemetery, Wilson. Clark, Bell & Perkins Funeral Home, 319 Barbour St., Hartford, in charge of arrangements.


NOTE: Information was pulled from the program that was handed out during his funeral services.
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Tanya Lynn "T-Biscuit" Jordan Shannon

Birth Date: 1968-12-19
Deceased Date: 2004-05-14
Obituary:
Tanya Lynn "T-Biscuit" Jordan Shannon, 35, of Hartford, went to join her heavenly father on Friday, (May 14, 2004) at Saint Francis Hospital and Medical Center in Hartford. Tanya was born December 19, 1968, in Hartford and she lived here all of her life. She attended Hartford public schools. She is the daughter of Linda Carol Shannon Jordan and the late Alvin Jordan. She is survived by three sons, John A. and Alvin R. Shannon and Kerwin Banks, Jr.; three sisters, Tasha M., Nicole S., and Samantha L. Jordan; three brothers, Shawn and his wife, Sharese Reid, Terry and his wife, Tasha Jackson, and Joseph Bryant; two grandfathers, King Shannon, Sr. and Harry Hartie; and 11 nieces and nephews, all of Hartford. She was also predeceased by her grandfather, John H. Barnes, both grandmothers, Mary L. Jordan and Edith Shannon; and a nephew, Kwame Jackson. She also leaves a host of aunts, uncles, relatives and friends, including two devoted friends, Arnette Harrison and Joey McBridge. Calling hours are Friday, 11 a.m. at the Salvation Army Chapel, 100 Nelson St., Hartford, with funeral beginning at 12 Noon. Clark, Bell & Bell Funeral Home, Hartford.

NOTE: Information was pulled from the obituary published in The Hartford Courant on May 20, 2004.
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Timothy Jerome "Chunky" Parkman

Birth Date: 1968-01-16
Deceased Date: 2019-05-17
Obituary:
Timothy "Chunky" Jerome Parkman 51, of Hartford, CT, departed into eternal rest on May 17, 2019. He was born to Elizabeth Parkman and the late Thomas G. Parkman Sr. on January 16th, 1968 at St. Francis Hospital in Hartford, CT

He graduated from Simsbury High School in 197. Timothy had a passion for cooking and his kids. He was employed by Sage Allen where he later left and joined Tallulah's Caterers for the last 25 years. Tim loved every and anything that had to do with New York. Favorite football team New York Jets, baseball team New York Yankees, and basketball team New York Knicks. All time favorite rap song was "Fight the Power" by Public Enemy. If you knew Tim, you knew he wouldn't be caught without his Ptron and being Polo down to the socks!

Besides his mother he eaves to cherish memories to his six kids, Tashara, Timothy Jr., Timmell, Eddie and Shane Parkman, and Tamoy Talbert; three step-kids, Sammy Johnson, Ashley Rodgers, and Simone Byrd; one grandchild Tamire Parkman; and two step-grandchildren, Ralph Shaw, and Sanyi Thomas; a step-grandmother Willette Barnes; five brothers Thomas "Ice" Jr., Troy "Baby Bro" and Dennis "TJ" Parkman, and Shawn Abrams; three sisters Denise "Williard" Parkman Coppedge, Elizabeth "Freddy" Williams; and April Cameron; three nieces Rasheeda Weaver, Tashoy "Matthew" and Tiara Parkman; and three great-nephew Jeremy Syms, Chase Burgos, and Taurus Thomas; one great-niece Maitaye Thomas; three aunts Evelyn DeCarish, Betty Harris and Annette Jordan; one step-aunt Sheila Henderson; a significant other Kashuna Taylor; adopted mother Nanci Fox; and special friends Carrie and Daniel Boucher and a host of family and friends.

He was predeceased by paternal grandparents Nathaniel and Lelia Parkman nd maternal grandparents John and Mary Barnes; one sister Melinda Parkman, an Uncle Alvin Jordan, and a longtime friend Sabrina Kennon; two special cousins Tanya and Anthony Shannon.


NOTE: Information was pulled from the program that was handed out during his funeral services.


 
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Melinda Ann Parkman

Birth Date: 1958-12-08
Deceased Date: 2016-03-27
Obituary:
Melinda Ann Parkman 57, of Hartford, CT, went to glory peacefully on March 27th, 2016 at Hartford Hospial surround by her family. Melinda had the heart of gold, loved her family dearly and would give her last to make sure they were taken care of. She adored her granddaughter Da'Jion, whom she had custody of since she was 2 years old. Being the family oriented person that she was, she spent lots of time with her family. She was the "go to" house for all her nieces and nephews as well as other family members. Everyone truly adored her. She was an active member and user at Mt. Olive Church of Ministries. When she wasn't babysitting for friends and family, which she loved to do, she worked at the XL Center as a Stand manager, where she was employed for the past 10 years.

Melinda is survived by her granddaughter Da'Jion Parkman, Honorary Mother Elizabeth "Liz" Parkman. Sisters: Denise Parkman, Elizabeth Williams (Fred), Darlene Parkman (James Harris), Deborah Johnson, Kim Johnson, Cheryl Baldwin (Dennis), Yolanda Champion and Special Sisters Arlene Canty and Marcy Walton. Brothers: Dennis Parkman (Kinyarda), Nathanial Johnson (Denise), Tyrone Bridges, Dennis Bridges, Jr (Tara) and Willie Bridges. A Special Niece Shanowa Parkman and Goddaughter Charisse Jernigan. Melinda has a host of nieces and nephews as well as extended family who will truly miss her. She was preceded in death by her son Floyd Parkman, Father: Dennis Bridges, Mother: Leila Parkman, Sisters: Charlotte Bridges, Nathaline Parkman and Christine Parkman.

Melinda was loved by all who knew her. Her spunky attitude and warm heart caused you to gravitate towards her. She was the type of person who would fuss at you and hug you all at once. She was very important to her family and the memories that she has embroidered into our hearts will remain forever.


NOTE: Information was pulled from the obituary published in The Hartford Courant and also the program that was handed out during her funeral services.
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